Sunday, April 18, 2021

A Tale of Two Connecting Rivers

 

For a Nutmeg like me to inhabit in the ‘Land of Steady Habits’ that is the Constitution State of Connecticut out of all the fifty states of the US is just a divine Connection. This is a connection defined by two rivers. One of these two rivers is the good old Mula-Mutha running through Pune and the other one is River Connecticut running through this US state that is named on this river.  To define this connect in Mathematical terms,   this is a case of linear correlation:  What Pune is to India is what Connecticut is to the USA. And it was very easy for a diehard ‘Punekar’ like me to assimilate into Connecticut culture.

Let’s start with the parallels in the History.  The name Connecticut is actually a native ‘Indian’ term ‘Quinnehtukqu’ meaning a long land on the long tidal river. Connecticut River originates in Canada to reach this state from north cutting the state centrally to meet long island sound in the south. Initial Dutch Settlers from NY traveled up here to form small colonies in and around the 1610s. The Pilgrims who had landed near Boston and later Puritans who came in after the Pilgrims inhabited the state around the late 1630s during the same time when Shivaji Maharaj entered in the ravaged city of Pune along with his mother Jijabai.  Pilgrims were the colonists from England who formed New England to seek out a new life as they were not so well-off people. Puritans came in later to form new order highlighting conservative values they found wanting in England that was then. These were well-off people. Thus they tried to form order through the order of rules. The first constitution was written here and thus Connecticut is called Constitution State. People from Pune are also famous for writing their own rules in form of boards named ‘Puneri Patya’. This is called the state of steady habits with the affinity to comply with rules and being conservative. People of old Pune were also termed as conservatives but I disagree with that tag as Pune has given the country many reformers. This state is called Nutmeg state as people in this state are eloquent, ingenious, and shrewd that they were able to make and sell wooden nutmegs.   The same can be said about old residents of Pune. Even now Connecticut is called ‘Still Revolutionary State' for its role in American Independence and after. The same can be said about Pune. Connecticut's greatest contribution to the war of American Independence was the fact that it furnished many supplies to the Continental Army.  The state of Connecticut was an essential industrial center for World War II.  Connecticut produced 54% of all ammunition for the United States during the war, as well as producing brass, rubber, and many other things.  Just like Pune is playing its role now in Covid war by supplying Vaccine to the world.

The area of Connecticut is 5543 sq mt which is slightly less than Pune District. Connecticut is located between NY and Boston just as Pune is strategically located connecting regions of Deccan to the coast.  It is a part of the Tristate of NY NJ and CT as well part of New England with Mass, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and Vermont.  This state along with the entire New England area turns into heaven in the fall season with fall colors same as Pune turns into heaven in monsoons.  The woods of Connecticut are very famous. The green slopes, idyllic neat villages, rich towns, lakes, forests, rivers make this area very beautiful just like the hills around Pune. This state has a slogan that it’s a state of forests and hills. Winters are harsh and summers mildly hot and sticky but more or less weather is fine due to proximity to the coast just as old Pune weather was in the past.

Before and after World War II this was a very industrialized state making submarines, engineering goods. Many products like Frisbee, Vacuum Cleaner, sewing machine, toothpaste, dictionary, submarine, can-opener were first made in the world in Connecticut. After the 90s it lost its prominence due to taxation policies. To generate revenues this state opened up policies that allowed setting casinos and till recently boasted top two of the largest Casino in the western hemisphere (surprised that Connecticut casinos beat Vegas). Though it is still a financial hub with Hartford, the state capital is called as the Insurance capital of the world. The state which gave the world J P Morgan hosts top financial honchos in the rich NY bordering towns like Greenwich, New Canaan, and Westport. Similarly, Pune became the auto and IT hub of India. The world-famous universities like Yale, Wesleyan, Connecticut College, and UConn are located here. It has a rich sports tradition with loyalties for baseball and football divided between the bigger teams of NY and MA.  UConn basketball history is the richest in the US.  Pune also is known for universities and institutions. US Navy has few big bases in CT same as the Indian army has bases in Pune.

Pune has great Food culture as Connecticut. The world’s first lobster roll and the burger were made in Connecticut. The New Haven in CT is famous for pizza. Celebrities like John Mayer, George W Bush, Meg Ryan, Katherine Hepburn, Mel Gibson, and Meryl Streep are from this state. Many rich businessmen, CXOs, have selected the rich towns of Connecticut to Reside and retire. They say if you are retired rich you are in Connecticut. Pune also was at one time a retirement paradise.

The human mind is very adaptable as it adjusts to the place where destiny leads it. My own life journey started near Mula Mutha River and has reached the banks of this Connecticut River where I have created many memories as well. Life is like a river always flowing with events leaving back memories of civilizations along its banks. 

Sunday, April 11, 2021

Follow Request to your Gen-Next

 

For someone who is a diehard fan of magical teamwork of Gulzar’s Poetry, RD’s Music and Kishore’s voice, it is a challenge to familiarize and further appreciate the individual brilliance of Taylor Swift on all three departments. For someone caught in a time warp at the stroke of midnight when we changed calendars into this new millennium, my sudden quest to familiarize with Taylor Swift Music has a story of its own.

The story starts from the date when we decided to spend some time in the US. From a timid pre-teen in Pune to a college-going young adult attending online classes at one of the world’s top colleges in this continent, my daughter’s transformation has been quite remarkable. But hang on this is not a typical ‘Desi’ parent boasting about exploits of his ward, though I could not avoid acting like one by telling you this needlessly.  After all, I am a Desi parent. A major part of my daughter’s transformation happened during those four years of much glamourized high school years in the US.  Though I have seen enough US films and TV myself during my own formative years and adulthood, I never had the slightest inkling of what it would be like being a teenager’s parent in the US.

But the parental issues are universal. In India my daughter was in her pre-teens, parenting was a challenge with a lot of questions. Should I be a pushing parent or a lenient one? Should I restrict her screen time? Should I get her a smartphone with social media access, should I filter contents, and so on? But having observed those years back then and now having Closely observed high school years in the US of my daughter, I have learned a lot of things to write a parenting manual for today’s Generation. The first thing to do is to a send follow request to your next-gen in order to befriend him/her.  It’s not a cliché friendship but something I mean as ‘Bruh’ one. And to become a ‘real buddy’ or’ Bruh’ you need to do certain changes in your digital and physical footprints.

·         Get on to ‘Insta’ and Snapchat: Forget your Whatsapp and Fb accts. FB and Whatsapp are the places to hangout for Uncles and Aunties. If you want to be in tune with the Next-gen, you need to be on Insta or Snapchat. You should learn how to create reels and boomerangs. You should go live once a week with irrelevant things to say. You should be snapping with you ward quite often.

·         Use Google suite:  Google Docs, Sheets, and Slides instead of Word, Excel or Powerpoint as its ‘cool’ to collaborate especially for homework/assignments and so on. Everything that happens online should remain online. Hard drives are boring. Office is for the offices even in these 365 days of mobility.

·         Load yourself with caffeine. You need to survive in this cruel, cutthroat and complete your assignments. You need that extra alertness, smartness, and that kick. Ensure that your supply chain is stacked with coffee powder or the Energy Drinks like Monster. You appear trendy with your ‘Cupp-o-joe’ in your hand.

·         Forget AM on the clock unless it crosses midnight. Start your days as late as possible to coincide with NextGen Timings the way you ensure collaboration in your onsite-offshore team. Early mornings are only allowed after a night out.

·         Load your playlists with Lofi music if you need to study anything or concentrate.  Lofi (Low Fidelity) music is compulsory for studying. You won’t get the concept unless you have that kind of music in your background. If possible have that virtual ‘Studygirl ‘as your study buddy. If your ward listens you playing Lofi with Studygirl you will be very popular.

·         Acclimatize with K POP (BTS). If you discuss the Korean Pop music brand Bangton Boys you will climb up the popularity charts.

·         Another trick to be popular with your ward is to help him/her with the hardest of study assignments. News will spread fast in the friend’s circle about your achievements in calculus or mechanics that you will be popular in the entire school/college. We Indian parents can definitely manage this. This in turn will make your ward popular and you will be definitely in the good books of your own ward.

·         Don’t be a soccer parent in front of their friends.  The last thing you need is to boss or scold or push your ward in the presence of their friends. You will lose some many points in the TRP charts that it will be difficult to regain the lost popularity unless you do any TRP scam.

·         Know as many as Popular slangs: BT Dubz is By the way (Dubz means letter W),   hmu (hit me up meaning reach me out on social media), Bruh (best buddy), Duh (wasn’t it so obvious), and so on. The list is long. There are many web resources to help you with that.

·         Familiarize yourself with Khan Academy. This is the place your kids hangout more for studying than any other place in the world. And more than lectures, YouTube videos teach you topics you have opted to learn. If you partner with your kids with a deep know-how of these two resources you will be a Rockstar.

My daughter is an ardent Swiftie. So I want to be one as well as mentioned at the start of this story.  Please note these are tips that I myself have figured out. Soon I plan to start classes on this parenting topic in the local circuit. Once I test that, this is going to be my next startup idea.  

But I appreciate the clarity of thoughts and sorted out priorities for this Gen. Our Gen had no option but to succumb to the rat race and society pressure. This gen has got no baggage and they will stop nothing less than a victory even when they can get away with a draw. Fear of failure is a history.

Monday, February 22, 2021

अमेरिकेतली स्वराज्य स्थापना

 

ही  घटना ४ जुलै १७७६ (American Independence) ची नसून  ह्या  २० फेब्रुवारी २०२१ ची आहे आणि तीही  आपल्या कनेक्टिकट मधील मराठी माणसांनी घडवून आणली .  शिवजयंती च्या निमित्ताने आयोजलेल्या नाट्यमाध्यमातून.

करोना मुळे थोडे नैराश्याचे आणि  आर्थिक मंदीचे वातावरण होते गेले वर्षभर . काळरात्र जरी नसली तरी अंधाराची  छाया  आणि अनिश्चितता दाटून आली होती . मग उभारी घेऊन  गरुडझेप  घेण्यासाठी आपण काय करावे ?  आपल्या इतिहासात अशक्य गोष्टी करण्याची प्रेरणा तीन अक्षरात दडून बसली आहे. नुसते शिवाजी महाराज म्हणले की मनगटा मध्ये जोर येतो आणि कुठल्याही संकटाशी सामना करायचे बळ येते. इथे तर कनेक्टिकट मधील DARHCT (देसीज आरौन्ड रॉकी हिल कनेक्टिकट ) संस्था आणि कनेक्टिकट मराठी मंडळाच्या (CTMM ) चमूने  अक्खे शिवचरित्र नाट्य स्वरूपात प्रस्तुत केले तेही ३५ मिनिटात. शिवजन्मापासून स्वराज्य स्थापनेच्या राज्याभिषेक सोहोळ्या पर्यंत सर्व घटनांचा समावेश असलेला बहुमाध्यमिक म्हणजे नाच, पोवाडे, नाट्य , देशी खेळ समाविष्ट असलेले फिरोदिया करंडकाच्या स्वरूपात केलेला कलाविष्कार प्रत्यक्ष उपस्थित प्रेक्षकांनी डोक्यावर घेतला. करोना  काळातली सगळी बंधने आणि काळजी घेऊन आयोजित केलेला हा  कार्यक्रम  न्यू जर्सी मध्ये  मल्लखांब फेडेरेशन USA आणि इंडियन कॉन्सुलेट नी  शिवजयंती निमित्त आयोजित केला होता .

Sunday, February 7, 2021

The Good, The Bad and The Ugly

 


2021 has started and what a hectic year it has been personally.  Life as they say is comprised of fifty shades of Gray (no this has nothing to do with the film by this name). Nothing is right or wrong: Black or white. But these are the days of Polarization. You have to either be right or wrong. You are with me or against me. And Yes, I support this polarization. Surprised? That too when it's natural in life to have truth somewhere halfway there.  There were Gods and there were demons with humanity somewhere in between throughout ages. But these days it is different. There is a time in life when you have to take a position.  And these are those days for one to take a stand. Either pro or anti. A blatant example is Terrorism. You can be either against it or are yourselves a terrorist. There is no justification of any 'injustice' done to one religion/region. As George W Bush said in his famous and maligned speech. He was ridiculed for nothing those days. But he headed few initiatives that ensured that  9/11 was not repeated in the US. Now it may incite few reactions that this justification of polarization is provocative but  I believe proactivity and action are more worth than reflective passive opinions and inactivity.  Thus I am taking a stance to hail the good, regret the bad, and fight against the ugly.

Sunday, January 3, 2021

Year of Reset



Impossible is Nothing, says a Nike Slogan. This is proven again in 2020 but more aptly by rephrasing this slogan: Anything is possible. It was 2020. To mark the end of this dreadful year, I stuck symbolically to my home state and went to a state beach near Westport hosting a natural  9/11 memorial to CT residents lost then. On that clear day in Sep 2001, this point saw the collapse and smoke arising from twin tower debris. 1st Jan 2021 was not that clear day, so could just see the outline of the distant Manhattan skyline. The ritual to be around these waters, started since I landed on these shores, was completed. Like me, Millions of people all over from the globe have entered this continent on these shores. So these waters offer a good backdrop to go philosophical in the globally local context.

Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Happy New Year 2021

 

Thankfully we have reached Year-end. The only thing to thank this year is for giving us an opportunity to reset a few things. With that looking forward to restarting with those bug fixes. Happy New Year 2021.

Sunday, December 13, 2020

RasGandharv: Musical Essence of Fall and Friendship.....


This part of the world transforms itself into heaven from late September till mid-November every year. 

My Daughter Riya writesWith the leaves falling off the trees, nature is preparing for those cold winter days. In my opinion, this is an important doctrine. When something becomes obsolete and might need some change, there needs to be a transformation in order to succeed. The leaves fall off as they cannot face the cruel snowstorms. The trees realize this and shed their leaves. This helps them to survive cold winters. Similarly, when a way of life seems to be dull and monotonous, it means that some alteration needs to be introduced. Maybe picking up a new hobby, indulging in a self-care routine, or simply changing your perspective on your current activities. To be successful in tough times, we need to be equipped with the necessary tools."

Thus few friends dispersed across professions but connected by Geographies (CT and India) decided to find this passion that will help us transform and equip us with the warmth that will last winters and cold vagaries of life.